She is scared. She sees her new love in one hand and all of the passion and happiness he brings to her, and she sees her husband and her beloved children in the other. She struggles with her dilemma. Should she pursue her personal happiness, or subsume it to maintain the status quo?
Finally, she realizes that without her happiness, she will not be able to be her best for her children. She is confident that her husband, who is a good man, will endure losing her and find the strength to move on with his life. So, for her happiness and the sake of her children’s happiness she moves on with her life in the name of love.
For those of you who are struggling as this woman above once suffered, or for those of you who know someone like her, please understand that women in such a position are in need of support and love. If it is within your capabilities, help her make the right decision. Her family will survive and be in a much better place because of her decision to do the right thing. God wants everyone to be happy. Happiness is the key to living well.
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Astonishing Joseph. I did not expect you to post something like this?!?! I have mixed feelings about this. On one hand the women is lucky enough to have felt the impact of love from another human being. I think there are many people out there that will never experience that. Secondly a decision to be happy is easier when you are a relationship jumper. If that person never came a long she would have possible stayed in that stagnant marriage until something else happened like death. It saddens me that the reality is marriage isn’t forever in most cases.This topic has led me into my existentialist old self,love sucks and why bother?…
I am full of surprises LL. Thank you for thoughtful comment. 😉